Friday, June 26, 2009

update on Jax (chiari malformation and other words i don't like)

I thought I would post an update about my Jaxon.
We have received so many phone calls and e-mails, I wish I could answer them all promptly...however that is not going to be the reality, so I thought perhaps a post would help let people know what is going on.
Plus the more people praying for the boy the better..right?
I'm getting ahead of myself however..so let me back up -
About three or four weeks ago Jax started having severe headaches.
He would complain of pain in the back of his head/neck, nausea, sensitivity to light sound etc. He would then go up to his room and fall asleep for several hours or overnight. He has always been a bit prone to headaches, but this was definitely out of the ordinary and had us concerned. I was thinking perhaps he had some sort of migraine thing happening?? We really didn't know. So, I scheduled him an appointment with our pediatrician on Wednesday the 17th. We went in early (8 or so) and Ty watched the girls and was planning to go into work when we got back. When the pediatrician examined him he didn't see anything that was very conclusive, but decided that because of the severity of the headaches he would send us to the ER for more testing. So we went to the ER at the hospital here in Neenah. Jaxon (on top of everything) had some sort of viral bug and had a fever that day, the nurse tried to take his temp under his tongue and he threw up all over her - poor guy. He was scared to make a mess on the clean white bed. I had to tell him that of all people the ER nurse could probably handle it. So the ER doc examined him and he had some anti nausea meds and IV fluids to help him feel better. Tyler dropped the girls off at our friends home (thank you SO much once again for having them Joanna) and came to the hospital. They did a CT and MRI of his head that afternoon and found what was most likely the cause of the headache.
He has what's called a Chiari Malformation and a related problem called Basilar Invagination.
Because I am not great at explaining, I found some definitions and photos.
Here are definitions of both:
About Chiari Malformation -
Chiari malformation is a rare abnormality at the base of the brain that results in brain tissue extending into the spinal canal. The condition may be congenital (present at birth) or may develop as the skull and brain grow.
Basilar Invagination -
Basilar invagination is a disorder in which the base of the skull is not formed correctly. As a result, the upper tip of the spine tends to protrude into the area where the spinal cord leaves the brain, and can cause pressure in this area.
Though mostly found in patients who have other spinal or bone problems, such as Arnold-Chiari malformations or osteogenesis imperfecta, occasionally some children have this problem alone. The exact number of people affected is unknown, but is believed to be extremely unusual.
So that evening we were sent to the Children's Hospital of Wisconsin in Milwaukee. There we met with a Neurosurgery resident who confirmed Jaxon's diagnosis. Since then the docs ordered a CT and MRI of Jaxon's spine as well (which we had done this past Wednesday).
We are set to meet with the Neurosurgeon and Spine specialist on July 8th in Milwaukee. We have also sent all of his information to the Mayo Clinic in Minnesota, which is about 4hrs. drive from our home.
That's really all we know for now. Tyler and I are trying to read up on the subject in preparation for our meetings with the specialists. It is likely that our summer could be filled with surgery, hospital stays and a fairly long recovery. We are grateful that we live by some wonderful health care facilities and hope to find the best possible care for Jax.

Thank you all so much for your thoughts, prayers, meals, babysitting service calls and e-mails. We have the greatest friends and family ever and we love you all so very much.
At the moment Jax is doing fairly well, and we will of course update as soon as we know anything further.


Thursday, June 25, 2009

Farmers Market

Rivaling the outdoor concert for favorite summer activity would have to be the downtown Farmer's Market. It opened this past Saturday the 20th - and our whole family was excited. Tyler and Lia were so ready to get some roasted corn they could hardly contain themselves. Other yummy options included Brazilian cheese bread (similar to that which they make in Paraguay - ty was thrilled), mini doughnuts, BBQ pork on a stick...the list goes on. Pretty much we just eat and walk around, but there in something about the festival/community atmosphere that I just love. ahhh....summer :)
Sis enjoying her corn
Maggie eating dad's corn..
Runnning Maggie(with puppy of course)...I think dad must have been in charge of the girls hair..??
Jaxon trying to avoid getting his picture taken
got him :)
still eating corn...
good times...can't wait to go again

Sunday, June 21, 2009

Out To Lunch Concert






There is a small outdoor amphitheater by our local Library in downtown Neenah. It sits just on the water where lots of the boats are docked, and provides an awesome atmosphere for a summer concert. Every Thursday they have a free lunch concert, it is one of my favorite summer events - I rarely miss it. You can bring your own lunch - or every week they have a local restaurant come sell food. As an added bonus often times Ty can meet the kids and I for lunch because it is so close to his office! The kids eat, dance and play in the fountain just next to the amphitheater. Mom gets to relax in the sun for a minute and listen to the local talent. :)


I know when it comes time to move I will miss the small town feel of Neenah

...I really do love it here.

The fountain also provides great photo ops if your ask me. I am not a photographer in the least - but I've captured a few great shots by this fountain in the last few years. Here are some shots at the first concert of the summer.

It really was not that warm - but it did not keep the kids out of the water that's for sure.





Eating lunch! You can see that I am a bit hard core about getting there early(the grass behind us is still all empty) - I like to get a good place to park and sit....cause the place gets a bit crazy.

dancin' girls
dancing with friends - look closely... all three of the kiddos are in this picture! :)

Saturday, June 20, 2009

summer begins...

Summer got off to a good start this year (didn't exactly last ... but more on that later).
On the last day of school Lia had field day and then got out at noon.
She had her friend Kami over for the rest of the day to play. They had a great time chilling on the swing set and eating lot of popsicles.

jaxon of course joined in the fun too

lia out grew her old bike and upgraded to an even bigger one...she looks old, I can't handle it

jax likes to ride this year too...you can tell in this picture that he just stuck his tongue out at me

lia's school is right around the corner from our house - the kids love to go play on the school playground, so we have spent quite a bit of time there

i love these pictures of jax playing on the slide - perhaps some of the best ever taken of him *just a note...Maggie takes the puppy in this picture EVERYWHERE with her
i have never had a child so attached to a stuffed animal
- his named is Puppy JoJo King (name chosen by Maggie herself of course)
I have made an attempt to do some learning activities/crafts as part of the daily routine
some days we stick with it....and some days we don't - what can I say?? it's summer :)

as a fun little start to her summer Lia added a bit of bling to her ears.
I thought it was totally fun to take her to get her ears pierced,
Ty looked like he was in pain the whole time
...he does not enjoy the idea of his baby girl growing up.

Thursday, June 11, 2009

kids museum

I decided to renew our membership to the Appleton kids museum for the summer. The kids and I went the other day and had a great time. Maggie likes all of the activities now and I don't even have to bring a stroller with me or anything...hooray! Here are some pictures from our trip. The only - not so great - moment of the day was when we went to get in the car and Lia says to me "Mom you're going to be mad when you look at the windshield". Those of you that live around here probably already guessed what she meant...parking ticket of course. Seriously what is with Appleton??? My meter was expired for all of 2 minutes before they gave me a ticket. *sigh* Note to self...park in the terrace next time! :) other than that ...good times











while the boys were away...


Tyler and Jaxon went on their 1st fathers and sons camp out this past weekend. They had a great time roasting hot dogs, playing soccer/frisbee golf and sleeping in the tent! The girls decided that while they were away for the evening we would have a little party of our own. We got some pizza and then went for a bike ride and stopped at the park to play. When we came home we soaked our feet, ate some orange creamsicles (which the girls are still wearing on their faces in these pictures) and watched episodes of "That's So Raven" all night...well until 10pm which is late for Lia. :) It was a fun opportunity to hang out with my girls and visit with Lia...she is getting so grown up these days, I can hardly believe it. Maggie thought she was big time too..staying up late and soaking her toes in the soapy water...she had it all over the place by the time we were done.

a few self portraits...

do you love my hair? caught on the couch and looking all crazy!?

Our feet got pretty dirty in the sand at the park - here are the girls cleaning up.

yummy..
perhaps a face wipe for Maggie?
snuggled in watching a show